5/30/2023 0 Comments Life isnt fair![]() However my internal demand for fairness has rarely, if ever, succeeded in actually rectifying an unfair situation. Sometimes, my irrational belief that the world has to be fair causes me to feel angry, other times sadness or anxiety. ![]() In theory, life would definitely be better if things were fair- we’d all get the things we worked for or waited our turn for, and life would be great! As nice as this theory of mine (and probably of many others) is, it’s not rational because, in actuality, life isn’t fair! When I demand that life be fair when it isn’t, I cause myself distress. “Life SHOULD be fair!” I find myself getting caught up in this kind of thinking a lot- when someone cuts in front of me in line, when I see some people being granted opportunities that others aren’t, when I miss the train because someone cut me off in the train parking lot and parked between the last two parking spaces, and the list goes on.
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